spike gives up, he finally tell's buffy that he will leave her alone

spike and buffy are arguing in a cemetery and spike finally tell's buffy that he will leave her alone and not bother her anymore.then Buffy see him at the bronze with another women and starts to realize she love him and regrets her decision .In the end it's buffy and spike together though.

so i hope someone knows this story.

Gosh, that could be any one of a hundred season 6 stories - by me or by several other authors. In season 6 I have "First Date", "Users", "Green Eyes", and maybe "What Big Teeth You Have." A couple others where Spike leaves her or breaks up with her, but they are often left at that, so no jealous Buffy getting a chance to make up with him. And a few jealous Buffys - but she's been the one to break up, so that doesn't fit your description either.

Good luck.

This is a Christmas story and probably not what you're looking for, but it fits your description.

http://spikeluver.com/SpuffyRealm/viewstory.php?sid=3340&ageconsent=ok&warning=5