ANYA: Are you still upset about that fight you had with your friends? It was hours ago! Get over it.

XANDER: Anya, you--Forget it.

ANYA: So, they all think you're lost, directionless loser with no plans for his future? Pfft.

XANDER: Anya, you can't "pfft" that stuff away.

ANYA: Why not?

XANDER: I don't know. 'Cause I think maybe they're right.

ANYA: So what if they are? You're a good person, and a good boyfriend, and...and I'm in love with you. Whatever they think of you, it shouldn't matter.

XANDER: Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't matter.

• Xander & Anya
• Xander's identy issues & insecurities

written by: David Fury; Transcribed by Sean Johnson . Full transcript at:
http://www.buffyworld.com/buffy/season4/transcripts/77_tran.htm