Rough with each other

Buffy

The following scene was cut from the episode Him:

Dawn: “And I’m even trying to understand that. A little. The rape part.”
Buffy: “He didn’t. I mean, he tried-”
Dawn: “Not that. I just… you guys had sex a lot, right? It’s not like you were strangers. Weren’t you even… being kind of rough with each other? Anya said some stuff.”
Buffy: “I should have killed her when I had the chance. Dawn, it was complicated. But I’d broken it off with him. I didn’t want it anymore.”

   
Source:The Watchers Guide 3, by Paul Ruditis, Pocket Books (2004)
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    Added: › 13th May 2005
    Updated: › 5th October, 2005
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    7 Comments about “Rough with each other”

    1. star*naming says:

      i think deleting this scene was a huge mistake. without this scene the comment dawn makes after buffy saves her from the train makes no sense at all.here’s the line:
      “What am I, gonna compete with you? You’re older, and hotter, and have sex that’s rough and kill people. I don’t have any of that stuff.” plus this conversation would have been a nice developpement in the buffy-dawn relationship. confiding this with her would mean that buffy regards dawn as more of a grown up than she previously has. plus..the “i should have killed her when i had the chance” bit is really funny.

    2. Abby M. says:

      I agree. At first I didn’t like the exchange but it would have brought Dawn and Buffy closer.

    3. Smash says:

      Does anyone know what part of the episode this would have been in? I’m having trouble placing it. I wish I could have seen them act it out, it’s not the same reading it.
      I had always wished that they had had a talk about Spike’s rape attempt…it just seemed to go away too fast, and considering that Dawn’s inclination toward the undead is rather like her sisters, it seems like there are life lessons she needs to hear from her to avoid getting into a lot of trouble one day.

    4. star*naming says:

      it would have been right at the begining, when dawn and buffy are talking in the bleachers,when dawn asks buffy what are her feelings for spike. before she unveils the true meaning of life..u know.. painting beautiful murals on ugly walls.. i loved that :)

    5. star*naming says:

      P.S. i got that from the shooting script, it’s not just a shot in the dark. here:
      DAWN
      (sincere)
      No. I’m trying to understand. I
      mean, nothing makes sense. First you
      say Spike disgusts you but, secretly,
      you two are doing it like bunnies.
      And Spike says he’d die for you, but
      he tries to rape you.
      (then/hesitant)
      And I’m even trying to understand
      that. A little. The rape part. [..]

    6. Smash says:

      Thanks so much! That makes a lot of sense now.

    7. AnyaRocks says:

      I think what Buffy says about killing Anya was funny.

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